There Comes a Time to Step Back

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There Comes a Time to Step Back

A familiar story from a sales department.
A manager has been nurturing one client for two months.
A high-value deal, huge emotional weight.
Every hour and thought — about this one client.
Exhaustion inevitable.

Then another message arrives:

“Please adjust the contract.”

Emotion vs Logic

“He’s just finding excuses not to sign!”
The manager bursts into the office —
tired, frustrated, ready to quit.

“I can’t sell anymore. I’m done. Fire me. I’m not calling him again.”

The contract gets revised and sent.
The client reads it… and doesn’t sign.

A few hours later, a call, a calm discussion.
No changes — and the contract is signed.

The real lesson

Sometimes you just need to pause and release control.
When you’re fixated on one deal,
you lose sight of other opportunities and clarity.

Had they simply talked through the contract the first time
instead of sending revisions back and forth,
it could have been closed much earlier — and without the breakdown.

Stepping back gives perspective

We’re often so obsessed with the “decisive step”
that we miss the easier one beside it.

Sometimes progress comes from stepping aside,
seeing the situation through neutral eyes.
That distance reveals paths invisible in the chaos.

The smartest move isn’t always forward —
sometimes it’s sideways, to see the whole board.